What do you do when shit gets hard? Do you throw yourself into work? Sleep a lot more? Zone out watching Netflix for hours on end?
I tried a couple of those. I also tried making a point to go to the gym when I wasn’t training, or go crazy with meal planning. You know, just something to drown myself in. That way, I didn’t think about how I didn’t have to drive for 2 hours a day for preschool, or what two children wanted to eat for dinner, or how many days worth of diapers we had left, or how I had to make sure the laundry was done so that we were prepared for purple spirit day. You know…. all that.
In the midst of all of the shit that is my life, I haven’t stopped training. Believe me, I’ve attempted to run away from Franz, but he wouldn’t let me. Stupid go-go-gadget arms snatched me back up and snapped me back into reality. The reality that, if I don’t do this, then I have for sure failed my own mission. My own mission to be happy, healthy, and to be a good (eventual) mom.
A few days after the kids left, I went to the gym to train. I cried all the way there. I sat in the parking lot, sobbing. I gathered myself, walked into the gym, walked into the lobby, and cried. I sucked it back up, went into the bathroom, and lost my shit. You think we’re done? Wrong. I walked back out to the vestibule only to break down AGAIN. There was nothing that was going to help.
I walked into the gym, and walked right past where I usually start my warm up. I walked right by it, and straight up to Franz. One look, and he knew something wasn’t right. I mean, It could have been the dead giveaway puffy red eyes, but I won’t guess on his behalf. Anyways, I walked up to him, he looked at me, asked me what was wrong, I looked at him and said, ‘I can’t do this’. This is when he led me out the back door of the gym. This was it. I had set him off for the last time.
Nawwwwwww…. Franz can’t get rid of me that easily.
We walked outside, and he said, ‘were going to walk around the building, and you can tell me what’s going on’, and we did. We walked. I bitched. I cried.
We got to the other side of the building, walked up to the front door, and Franz looked at me and said, ‘Cool, so, now that you have that out of your system, we’re going in. You CAN do this, and you WILL do this. If you cry in front of 20 (insert snooty suburban town name) moms, that’s on you. Ready?’
Uh.. I guess.
After an emotionally painful work out, I left, and the only only thing my body could do was sweat. There were no more tears, just a shit ton of sweat.
It’s kind of sort of maybe a little bit nice that I have someone who will motivate me, and encourage me, even when I am at my worst. Don’t tell him though, I don’t need him getting even more cocky on me.